So today we look forward to a new beginning of the emptying nest at tbe studio. I realize as I'm riding in the semi with my husband, on our way to Pennslyvania that there are to things that are certain. 1. Typing a blog on a phone in a semi is a crazy idea. 2. That our children will eventually all leave.
As I contemplate that our oldest child left home suddenly that all I'm left with are photographs and a few phone calls here and there to remind me of his smiling face. I think back of my favorite photos of him. One of them is well placed in our living room. It is a photo of the day he was born. It includes me, my father, my mother and his newborn sweetness. I love this photo. It is one of the less than a half of dozen with me and both my parents. Another would be a photo taken at a drs office of him and I together. He was three years old with the cutest smile and dimples. A mouth full of perfect white baby teeth and just muggin it up for the camera. His hair combed pefectly into place looking like a model. The last favorite picture I took of him when he was fifteen years old. I had just recieved my pro lights in tbe mail. I set them up in the bedroom to use my knotty pine wall as a backdrop. I asked him if he would come sit for me to check the lighting. Being himself, he plopped belly down on my bed and hung his face over the side. After some encouragment I managed to get his face upright on his arm. I snapped away figuring I better get this quick. The softness of his face still reflected the child in him but the gazing of the eyes showed the journey into adulthood beginning.
Dont ever miss these moments. Capture them forever. They are only young once. The best moments are taken on the spare of the moment and never posed. I do my best to find those moments even when photographing someone elses children. Right now I'm doing a lot of photos for trade. Get a hold of me and lets see if we can work something out if you feel you want me to photograph your children for you.